Category: Tidbits

Resource recommendations – Books

On Sex Surrogacy

Feder T, D TF. Sex Is the Least of It, Surrogate Partners Discuss Love Life and Intimacy. 2014. (Amazon)

Ben‐Zion, I., Rothschild, S., Chudakov, B., & Aloni, R. (2007). Surrogate versus couple therapy in vaginismus. The journal of sexual medicine, 4(3), 728-733. (Wiley)

Noonan, R. J. (1984). Sex Surrogates: A Clarification of Their Functions (Master’s thesis). SexQuest/The Sex Institute. (

Fox, A. and Szego, J. (2003). Sex and the Surrogate. The Age Magazine. (

Yingling, K. (2014). Sexual Surrogate Partner? Dirty and (

Sohn, A. (2011). Healing Hands. New York Magazine. (

More women turning to sex surrogates for help. (2011). CBS News. (

Dodes, R. (2012). Confessions of a Sex Surrogate. The Wall Street Journal. (

Guthmann, E. (2012). Male surrogate’s passion for intimacy. San Francisco Gate. (

Muller, R. T. (2013). Sexual Surrogates Help many Who Suffer Alone. Psychology Today. (

Kerner, I. (2012). Surrogates can be sexual healers. Chart – CNN. (

On Male Sexuality

Bernie Zilbergeld. (1999). The new male sexuality. Bantam. (

Kaplan, H. S. (2013). How to overcome premature ejaculation. Routledge.(

Metz, M. E., & McCarthy, B. W. (2004). Coping with erectile dysfunction: How to regain confidence and enjoy great sex. New Harbinger. (

Castleman, M. (2008). Great sex: A man’s guide to the secret principles of total-body sex. Rodale.(

Paley, M., & Ruzzier, S. (2000). The book of the penis. Grove Press. (

On Female Sexuality

Heiman, J., & LoPiccolo, J. (1988). Becoming orgasmic: A sexual and personal growth program for women. New York: Prentice Hall. (

Barbach, L. (1976). For yourself: The fulfillment of female sexuality. Signet. (

Goodwin, A. J. (1997). A Woman’s Guide to Overcoming Sexual Fear & Pain. New Harbinger Publications Incorporated. (

Foley, S., Kope, S. A., & Sugrue, D. P. (2011). Sex matters for women: A complete guide to taking care of your sexual self. Guilford Press. (

Northrup, C. (2012). The Wisdom of Menopause (revised edition). Hay House, Inc. (

Valins, L. (1992). When a woman’s body says no to sex: Understanding and overcoming vaginismus. Penguin Group USA. (

On Sexuality and Disability

Sexuality and Disability – The Web Site. (

Vicary, F. (2014). Sex and disability: yes, the two can and should go together. The Guardian. (

Disability Sexuality: Information on Sex & Disabled Sexual Issues. (2016). Disabled World. (

Tepper, M. (2016. Videos on Sexuality and the Disabled. Vimeo. (